not a washing machine! » Dinah

Posted by pegasus on September 10, 2010, at 8:21:40

In reply to Re: T #6, posted by Dinah on September 9, 2010, at 11:39:17

> Or as I tell my therapist, he's not a washing machine. I can't move to the next one if he's out of order.
So true! When my first real T moved away, and I was so heartbroken, he would say things like, "I don't think it's really about *me*." I hated that. Because, yes, OK, I could have started therapy with any number of other competent therapists, and probably have ended up with a similarly attached relationship. But . . . well, once I started with him, it was *completely* about him. That's what attachment is.
- Peg

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starting new T search: T #1 pegasus 8/20/10
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Re: T4 may be it, except . . . Annierose 9/3/10
Re: T4 may be it, except . . . » pegasus Dinah 9/4/10
T #5 is not the guy, summary so far pegasus 9/7/10
Re: T #5 is not the guy, summary so far » pegasus Dinah 9/7/10
T #6 pegasus 9/7/10
Re: T #6 » pegasus vwoolf 9/8/10
The winner is T4 - just left him a message (nm) pegasus 9/8/10
Re: T #6 » vwoolf emmanuel98 9/8/10
Re: The winner is T4 - just left him a message emmanuel98 9/8/10
good T shopping! » pegasus obsidian 9/8/10
Re: The winner is T4 - just left him a message » pegasus Dinah 9/9/10
Re: T #6 Dinah 9/9/10
not a washing machine! » Dinah pegasus 9/10/10
update and some thoughts on the process (long) pegasus 9/10/10
Re: update and some thoughts on the process (long) » pegasus Daisym 9/14/10
First real session with T4! pegasus 9/15/10

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