Posted by shelbyfude on May 27, 2010, at 13:18:39
In reply to Re: My therapist doesn't want to let me go...Help!, posted by shelbyfude on May 25, 2010, at 19:01:45
I really have been thinking about this. I think I am going to ask her the real reason why she doesn't want me to stop. It would make me feel so good about myself if she would just say,"you know, I think you are ready to give it a try." What a heap of confidence that would give me. I just cannot help but believe that something, some reason is standing in the way of letting me try things on my own. And, I feel it is HER reason and not mine.
I am going through a divorce which is hard. But I know it will be hard and try to feel all the emotions of sadness, anger, depression when they hit me so I can come out of this thing intact. I want to feel like I am not so messed up and incurable. I think I am and I now have the courage to try to do things for and by myself.
I feel at times I am the child and I wait for her to tell me what I should and should not do, how I should do things, etc.
Thanks for all of your help. This is really helping me process this.
poster:shelbyfude
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