Posted by Sigismund on January 8, 2010, at 17:58:37
In reply to Re: egocentric stage » Sigismund, posted by MysticKangaroo on January 8, 2010, at 16:02:55
>I think if I offered my T permission to hurt me she would say that is not what therapy is about. and who taught you that hurting you was the way of being with another person? My previous T was a robust man who would have said "cut the passive aggressive cr@p Mystic. I don't play games." (we did work together for 10 years)
I certainly cannot imagine having said that to my T, but it was almost 40 years ago we started and the times were very different and nobody said anything like that back then. We said different things.
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