Posted by Sigismund on January 8, 2010, at 17:55:15
In reply to Re: egocentric stage » Sigismund, posted by MysticKangaroo on January 8, 2010, at 16:02:55
This sounds right....
>In my head saying "You can hurt me" means that in some way I am still in control of the situation ~ if only in my own head. If I wasn't giving you permission then this wouldn't/couldn't be happening. It taps into my sense of blame and guilt for being hurt. Makes it all about ME... (a favourite topic of mine)
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