Posted by blahblahblah on November 5, 2009, at 19:15:46
Hey all,
Need some advice on what I should do. I am really worried about my T. her stress levels have been getting a lot higher and she has been doing some strange behaviour. I see has as a strong maternal role in my life and it is really upsetting me seeing the changes. I have been seeing her for about a year and half, we have a very strong r'ship.Ok. While there has been a slight build up (went weird after she had death threats and now has highly increased security and is very paranoid) the strange behaviours started about a week ago, firstly she wasn't responding to calls like she used to. Then she spent a few days in hospital for stress. Last time I saw her she told me about her stress and the meds she is on for them. She at times will tell me about her stresses but not go too far into it. Anyway, she went away and bought me a gift, asked me a q about it, but i never got to discuss it with her. I texted her that night and said I think I know the answer and will talk to her about it the next session. Anyways, she rang me at 7.55 in the morn to talk bout it and said she was feeling manic. So that was strange. Then i called her later that night to ask her if she could recommend someone for my friend, of which she called back at 12.30 at night. This is very unusual behaviour for her. In the conversation we got into a disagreement as she was saying I had said something I had never said. It was about a film. When I said i did not say that she would not back down and got annoyed at me. So...this is where I stand now. I care about her a lot, she is a lovely person. I am just so concerned about her, and the fact that i feel i can not talk to her about probs anymore, and that i am not seeing her as that strong person anymore.
Usually she is a great T who is always very professional, so I know this is unusual for her. Do you have any recommendations on how i should approach this? I want to talk to her about whether she has a T or not but I dont' want to upset her or make her feel uncomfortable. Oh, and not seeing her is not an option. She has been so strong and supportive of me for long time, I am not turning on her now.
Also...I ask please can no-one post this on twitter or facebook. Even though there are no names I dont' want my T to somehow stumble across this, and the less places it is posted the better chance she won't.
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