Posted by blahblahblah on October 14, 2009, at 17:57:08
In reply to Re: Your opinion please! » rnny, posted by Kath on October 14, 2009, at 13:45:57
Hey rnny,
Hadn't had a chance to read your post but Kath emailed me and let me know you and I are going through similar situations. Last week I made the decision to stop contacting my mother, hopefully not forever, but until things are a little easier. So hopefully the feelings you are going through I can identify with. I found I had a lot of guilt about it. Firstly due to always being responsible for her,it's hard to break this. Also I decided she was actually a great mum, yet the day before this i felt the opposite. Just a lot of confusion and deep pain. Nearly like I am grieving.
About your new psychologist, you need to really let them know how you feel about this. It is your session. My therapist has been really good about it but i have a strong r'ship with her. Is there any way you can talk to your old T?
Let me know how you go, feel free to email me if you want to share experiences a bit more.
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