Posted by littlegirllost on July 28, 2009, at 22:14:10
In reply to Re: A serious impasse » littlegirllost, posted by Daisym on July 28, 2009, at 21:06:54
Oh Daisy. Thank you. Thank you for hearing me. I'm going to respond better tomorrow (I'll try to from work), but I read this now as I am on my way to bed soon and had to say something. You totally hit the nail on the head in the first paragraph. Maybe I'm not really stuck, more like stuck between a rock and a hard place. Having to admit that I'm not happy with the way things are, and feeling like I did lose some trust and my safe place. And as much as I recognize these things and stay stuck (in the sense of not making any progress, etc.), I also don't want to leave her; I don't want to lose her. So I don't know what to do, where to turn, and end up feeling alone when I should be turning to her. I just can't believe we got to this place when things were going so SO well up until this point. This came out of nowhere.
lgl
>>> You don't really sound stuck - you sound more like you've lost trust in your therapist and lost a safe place to discuss things. If something like this had happened with anyone else, she would be the person you'd be talking to about it. Since the issue is with her, it leaves you at a loss.
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