Posted by TherapyGirl on May 6, 2009, at 11:35:55
In reply to Re: Apologies, posted by Dinah on May 6, 2009, at 10:20:58
She's done a little of this. Last night, in total frustration she said, "I can't fix this for you. YOU have to fix it."
Not helpful in that context, but okay the way you put it.
Of course, she also yelled, "Bullsh*t. That is total Bullsh*t" at one point. She would say she doesn't yell, but she does. She's just not as loud as other people when she does it.
I yelled at her, too. I told her I hate coming to my sessions now and I hate talking about this stuff. That's what I apologized for. Well, that and snorting when she asked me if I had been posting here lately (with desperate hope in her voice, or so it seemed to me). She asked me what was funny and I said, "Nothing." She said, "You laughed. It's not nothing. Do you not want to tell me?" And I said, "NO." Because it was just too mean at that point and I was trying to be civil. Then she said, "You're shutting me out. That's not going to make this better."
It was just a horrible session.
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