Posted by sassyfrancesca on May 1, 2009, at 7:26:19
In reply to Re: I Am So Sad, posted by Phillipa on April 30, 2009, at 23:56:38
Thank you all for your messages; talked to my t about what she said; he said she is a "classic example of borderline personality." They have abandonment issues and play cat and mouse with you; try to make you reject them, and when you do (I didn't) they tell themselves that they knew this would happen (of course they are MAKING it happen).
She has done this to me before.....stopped talking to me and then blasted me via e-mail.
It is so confusing. None of my friends ever treated me that way.
I know she is unstable...I care about her, but don't want to be in a relationship where I never know if and when she will be abusive again.
Thanks to all, again...Sasssy
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