Posted by LadyBug on March 30, 2009, at 15:22:10
In reply to Ladybug, posted by Dinah on March 30, 2009, at 7:51:20
Thanks for adding that. I am torn at the time because my husband has no money, no job, no car...nothing, and I feel bad. He put himself where he is now. He's taken all he's going to take from me.
I feel I should have him stay with me, but I can't do that. I can't give him power over me. He's had it for 25 plus years and it's time for me to own my own power. I won't give him the power to hurt me anymore. I won't ever forget the "stuff" he's done, but I can remember it without the pain. I'm sure from time to time it will creep in like you said.
It's not going to be easy. It sounds like I have a moving crew lined up for tomorrow, late afternoon. My husband can be nice, it just doesn't last, I need to remember that. Dr. Jeckell/Mr. Hide, drugs..........
LadyBug
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