Posted by Dinah on March 30, 2009, at 7:51:20
In reply to Re: Daisym » DAisym, posted by LadyBug on March 29, 2009, at 23:45:50
I've always thought letting go of the hurt is one of the best gifts I can give to myself. Not forgiving necessarily, and certainly not forgetting. But accepting, acknowledging, and refusing to carry the burden of holding on to the pain anymore. Not that it doesn't crop up from time to time anyway of course. But time to time is less of a burden than much of the time. Plus it has the added advantage of taking the power away from your husband. The power to continue to hurt you.
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