Posted by Dinah on February 26, 2009, at 15:00:33
In reply to Re: it's a bit puzzling... » Dinah, posted by workinprogress on February 26, 2009, at 0:29:54
Well, I'm feeling a bit more attached now. :) This thread has been great for that.
I'm so grateful to have the relationship we have. I really do know that if he wasn't who he was, I could have put in all the hard work, without the same result.
There's lots of room left to work. And some stuff is hard wired. It's not going to go away no matter what. We just work differently now.
Not that I won't be hurt or angry sometimes. It's part of the human condition. But now I really do believe that we will be ok. Within reason of course.
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