Posted by HappyChaiTea on February 24, 2009, at 9:06:57
In reply to I am such a trial to him...., posted by Dinah on February 24, 2009, at 0:26:19
Dinah,
Why did you ask that sort of question? It seems like it is setting him up for failure or something...
Seems like you have shaking in his shoes in order not to offend you, or say anything wrong..
Like he even HAS to say that you can call him if you need to...
Seems like a lot of control you have over him, I just wonder how authentic he can be with you, if he has to walk on egg shells?
I feel if you are THAT comfortable with him, you would allow him to say and do what is natural and comfortable with him, without so many expectations.
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