Posted by Dinah on November 24, 2008, at 13:10:00
In reply to My T, posted by Nadezda on November 23, 2008, at 17:04:57
It's not easy to leave someone you love. I know how much he's meant to you.
But to be totally honest, as you present him, if he wants you to express your pride in yourself, one good way would be to refuse to be treated as he's currently treating you. If that means leaving, it's very sad, but it's because of him.
I'm often struck by how similar therapy seems like a marriage. What I'm hearing sounds like a marriage that was terrific for a while, but has turned rather abusive. It's a difficult situation.
I totally respect any decision that seems best for you at this time. But I think you're worth better treatment than he's giving you. Way better.
poster:Dinah
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