Posted by seldomseen on November 21, 2008, at 5:41:47
In reply to Re: I need someone to talk me out of quitting therapy. » seldomseen, posted by Dinah on November 20, 2008, at 18:25:55
but still feel like quitting.
I think the best thing for me to do would be to bring this feeling up to him.
I think some of my concerns/complaints are legitimate, some may even be quit worthy.
What I'm absolutely sure about is that these breaches are traumatizing to me.
No one is perfect, and no relationship is perfect but we've got to figure out a way to minimize these traumas. They (obviously) cause me a lot of stress and disrupt the therapeutic relationship.
If my primary concern in therapy now is attachment, it really undermines my efforts if he forgets about me, locks me out and isn't available.
Frankly, my therapy is already quite sexual (in words not actions) so all he needs to do is start hitting me and it's my parents all over again.
AS much as I value him, this has got to be fixed.
Seldom.
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