Posted by Partlycloudy on November 18, 2008, at 9:17:57
In reply to i want to have an affair (**Trigger**), posted by B2chica on November 18, 2008, at 8:32:30
I think that losing intimacy must be the most difficult loss in a relationship. In my first marriage it was the first thing to go, and it felt like such a violation. It took me a really, really long time to realize what I had so quickly lost. I am told (or have read) that this quality can be regained in strong, steady relationships built on good foundations. Maybe you and your spouse will be able to find your way back to that place? I guess I am advising caution here... your heart is longing to fill a void, but I'm wondering if another person can do that or if we have to do that for our very own selves? That whole loving and cherishing ourselves before anyone else can do that for us.
Huge hugs to you today, B2.
pc
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