Posted by Looney Tunes on November 12, 2008, at 23:17:17
In reply to Re: How long have you been with T AND....... » Looney Tunes, posted by Wittgensteinz on November 12, 2008, at 10:45:24
Thanks everyone for your thoughts. I think it is very important to think about the T relationship frequently, in an "objective" way. (Not, oh I love my T way...LOL)
Alot of these questions I have been thinking about recently as a way to look at home the therapy relationship has moved and changed.
I have been with my T for 7 months now. (I just moved here about 1.5 years ago) I go 2 times a week. I have just recently started talking about "my life." This indicates to me a move forward.
Wittgensteinz, I think you distinction between embarrassment and shame is excellent. I liked how you tied in the concept of guilt with the shame.
These issues are overwhelming for me. I can not even look at T at all. I am usually sitting with my head in my shirt. LOL
I have seen no movement forward in this area.I also constantly fear judgment from T. I think I look at it as it is human nature to judge people, and how could T be any different. But of course, we are 100% harder on ourselves than other people probably are.
I have made no movement forward in this area.Well, after this assessment, I have a long way to go.
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