Posted by JouezMoi on November 12, 2008, at 17:02:10
In reply to Re: To quit or fall in love with my therapist, posted by Trotter on November 12, 2008, at 16:18:03
Trotter, I like your reference and reasoning. It is a courageous step. Be brave. And, fight the urge to run. With me the urge to run was strong, as in most attachment-avoidant "independent" persons ... but I found that once I gave in and stopped running, I discovered wonderful things about myself and my ability to have relationships. I am still a work-in-progress, and there are times when I regress. At those times, I reach out to my ex-T and something about that process or action, gets me back on track. Eventually I am now finding ways to reach out to others beside my ex-T. It may be difficult at times, but I think it is worth it. Bon chance.
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