Posted by obsidian on November 11, 2008, at 10:27:58
In reply to Re: What is the Nicest Thing Your T Ever Said to You? » Daisym, posted by Dinah on November 11, 2008, at 9:09:46
so many things....
and as others have said, they are often things in the moment that come along with the more subtle ways we communicate, facial expression for ex.one thing, which out of context may seem brash is this: shaking his head, but not with impatience he said to me "that's all in your head"...."now that's therapeutic isn't it" - it was most certainly not his customary way of communicating with me
but truthfully I was struggling to grasp the concept that I was not as objectionable as I imagine myself to be, and truly in the absence of other information I could not manage it
I needed some perspective
I know it *sounds* harsh, but it most certainly was not, anything but
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