Posted by DAisym on November 8, 2008, at 23:45:01
In reply to Re: A bit of a RAMBLE » muffled, posted by Dinah on November 6, 2008, at 8:32:25
I've been thinking about this thread a lot. I wonder if you've reached that stage that resembles the one where teens are disappointed in their parents - because they figure out they are human. It makes sense that the therapy relationship evolve along those lines - discovering the limitations of the person you love and trust - knowing that no one is perfect and no one can fill a person's every need.
I think acceptance of these limitations with graceful disappointment is a huge feat. You are to be commended for knowing what you want and knowing what is more important than getting it. I think this is very "adult-like" behavior. I wish I could do the same.
I also hope you find a way to lessen your phobia too.
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