Posted by Dinah on November 4, 2008, at 12:04:59
In reply to A bit disappointed, posted by Dinah on November 4, 2008, at 7:49:28
I actually asked him about the "we" today. It really was bothering me. He didn't remember saying it of course, but said that he wouldn't possibly have changed the pronoun for *my* benefit, and said that the only thing he could think of was one of the other things that had occurred to me later.
So still not entirely appropriate given my Ken doll image of him, but not insulting. :)
At least there's that. He may not be willing to stretch and learn to help me. But at least he doesn't misunderstand my attachment to him.
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