Posted by rskontos on October 31, 2008, at 18:13:41
In reply to My latest decision about T~Long~, posted by LadyBug on October 29, 2008, at 23:29:57
Ladybug,
I know you have been through so much. I remember it and often told you how much i supported you through it and I marveled at your strength. I don't how you got through but you did. You sound stronger I just wish you did not have to do it alone. Shame on that T. I don't think this is the right kind of termination though. It is a termination of a kind but very painful and totally unnecessary on her part. Why she chose this route I guess you may never know and I regret her decision to treat you in such a callous way. I agree with others that maybe she could not see what she did.
I have concluded after a very tough week that some people in our lives are just not meant to understand us. That for us, and with some relationships "the meeting of the minds" shall never take place because for some reason you and the other person just aren't on the same wavelength or are at different crossroads or just aren't communicating at the moment however important it is to be communicating at that moment. I think this is what happened. Your T basically dropped the ball, never picked it back up, and never realized she dropped it. What can you do? Can't beat it into her. You did what you could. You moved forward. Yeah Ladybugs!
You seem to be in a better place. I applaud you for that. I respect you for going back to say goodbye for you and only you.
Good luck with the session. Make sure it happens on your terms.
((((((((Ladybug))))
rsk
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