Posted by LadyBug on October 29, 2008, at 22:35:20
In reply to Very Painful- T Told me Not to E-mail Him Anymore, posted by sassyfrancesca on October 29, 2008, at 8:27:53
I agree with what everyone has posted here!!!
He is abusing you. You've given him your heart, he's taken it and messed with your head in doing so. What would you tell someone else if they were in your shoes? To keep putting up with it just because they are in love with him? You'd give the same advice everyone here is giving you. This is so sad for you. You deserve better. You are hanging on to "false" hope.I guess when we "get sick and tired" of being "sick and tired" of how other people treat us we change what we will and won't accept in their behavior.
Changing boundaries is painful especially when it is something that was allowed for a long time and now it's not ok. I know how it feels, I've been through it a few times with my T. They have too much control and power. I hope you bring up the money issue with him in enough time to process it with him before you can't pay him. Will he love you enough to let you visit him for free? Oh, we wish.
Therapy is one hard job!!!Good luck Sassy. I'm mad at your T too!
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