Posted by antigua3 on October 24, 2008, at 8:47:52
In reply to Re: Make a Choice, posted by onceupon on October 23, 2008, at 10:39:48
I think walking while we talk does signify to a certain extent being pulled along. But I'm doing the leading, or at least that's how I interpret it.
No. 1 could represent "walking" in and of itself, but it assumes that I wouldn't be moving forward in the rest of my life, but concentrating so much on this little girl. The problem, as he sees it, is that it would slow any progress I'm making in my life because I would spend my time ruminating instead of moving. I don't necessarily agree. Ruminating and then resolving would help me move forward in a huge way, but if I can't seem to resolve it (which I can't; I've tried forever), then it's best to keep moving forward in other directions and deal with the emotions when they come up in the here and now.
Like I said, I'm more used to No.1 w/my T, but I can see the value of what he is suggesting.
antigua
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