Posted by antigua3 on October 16, 2008, at 14:46:20
In reply to Re: Good Enough and yet..., posted by DAisym on October 16, 2008, at 13:26:50
Actually, Daisy, I think you have the right approach, and I'm the one who's wrong.
You should be angry at your mother; she didn't notice, recognize, whatever was going on and she didn't protect you.
You have to get the anger out and get it to a manageable level before you approach your mother, if you choose to do so. Of course there's an elephant in the room. It's always between my mother and me, and sometimes we skirt around the issue and sometimes we talk about it a bit, but it's always there.
I have chosen denial, and you are dealing with the anger appropriately. Much better than me.
That baseball bat is still around if you need it...
antigua
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