Posted by antigua3 on October 4, 2008, at 6:32:36
In reply to Re: Why do I feel so angry now? » antigua3, posted by lemonaide on October 2, 2008, at 17:38:08
You will learn to do this if you just keep at it. I still have plenty of reactions and don't understand until later that I have been triggered. Most times I'm pretty good at recognizing it, but I still get hit pretty hard by it. Practice, practice, practice.
I'm glad you're finding a solution. You've worked so very hard to stand up for yourself in difficult situations. I don't know if I can do that as well yet, so I admire you tremendously for having the courage to separate out what is you and what is them.
antigua
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