Posted by Wittgensteinz on September 22, 2008, at 9:01:27
In reply to Re: Your feelings about your partner's T, posted by fleeting flutterby on September 21, 2008, at 16:29:59
Hi Mandy,
No, you don't sound hateful - not at all. I think what you had to say was very important - I think I take a lot for granted actually and should count my blessings. I'm a person who finds it very hard to trust - I assume my partner talks negative about me when he shares about 'us' with his T - but maybe that's just me. I do think the healthy-sick dynamic is at play and that makes me feel very guilty, but it often is true - when I'm unwell, I really need a lot of support and can't take on too much for myself... but when I'm healthy I try to make up for those other times.
I'm sorry you experienced such a revelation with your partner's T - it all sounds very sad and upsetting.
I will say it again, I'm not at all offended, I was busy this weekend so didn't reply, but I've found each of the replies useful and thought-provoking.
Take care, and sorry to have worried you. I think what you have to say here is important and supportive - I don't feel a hint of hate or unkindness from you (or toward you for that matter).
Witti
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