Posted by Cal on September 12, 2008, at 6:32:20
In reply to Mixed feelings, But.., posted by Cal on September 11, 2008, at 5:30:58
Hi, I mananged to tell T today that she was correct in that I had asked the wrong question...which led on to my being able to tell her how hard it is for me to have these needs with her...she said what i really wanted to ask her was did she want to be here in this room with me and yes she did...and then I begun to have feelings of being crushed...but I talked through them and I think a lot of emotional honesty was admitted today by me....I did say that sometimes words don't do the feelings enought justice and then she asked about do I paint or draw?...I think I may need to look into perhaps doing something like to give my feelings another outlet...the silences in the room then made more sense...I realised that sometimes just sitting with the feelings was "enought"...anyways...from mixed feelings to openly admitted feelings was a sucess I feel..thank you for taking the time to reply to my post!!!
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