Posted by Racer on August 31, 2008, at 14:48:35
In reply to Drop and Dash aka Doorknob Confession, posted by Poet on August 31, 2008, at 14:13:39
Darling, that sounds so much like you. Made my day.
And this post might just be like some of our other conversations -- long and random, on accounta I'm still not sleeping and on a little bit of a talking jag.
Y'all don't gotta go from "I'm afraid my man is gonna stray off the rez" to "and this is the story of the CSA." It can, of course, but that's skipping a lot of intermediate steps. You know, the "every time I think about actually having sex with him, I feel..." through "maybe I could ease into helping him meet that need, without crossing my boundaries by..." and "maybe I can find a way to discuss my aversion with him that would help us do this together." You could talk about how you felt about sex before your strike -- was it something that you tolerated? Something so awful you had to work to keep from crying? Enjoyable at any point in your life?
What I'm saying is that there are all sorts of places you can go that are not directly related to That Thing Which Didn't Happen Uh Uh No Nope Never Happened.
And there's always crossing yourself -- gotta practice to stay at the top of your form, you know.
xoxo
poster:Racer
thread:849477
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