Posted by Rigby on August 11, 2008, at 13:48:13
In reply to Re: Wedding Ring Fiasco » Rigby, posted by Phillipa on August 11, 2008, at 13:31:07
I'm female and so is my therapist. I was gay when I entered therapy but during therapy I ended up falling in love with a guy and left my relationship.
My therapist, a long, long time ago, did something similar. Odd circumstances as to how I know this but basically she was recommended to me by a friend who knew her from long ago and this friend gave me the details--that basically she was gay and then just decided she wasn't anymore and ended up getting married and had a kid.
We both knew going into this that I knew this about her. It did not seem to be a big issue until I fell in love with a guy and then it was kind of strange but I never thought it was due to her influence--at all.
Who knows what she thinks though. I always thought that the influence we were concerned about was hers on me. Now I'm wondering if I've impacted her. When she said that, that there was this mutuality of impact, it really flipped me out.
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