Posted by sunnydays on June 29, 2008, at 22:41:46
In reply to Therapist in love with me or I´m crazy??, posted by girl33 on June 29, 2008, at 10:27:38
I can't tell from your post. It's too hard not being there in person. My T has told me he loves me (he's male, I'm female), but it was very clearly in more of a fatherly way and didn't get in the way of our relationship at all. I had told him I loved him first, and it was just a confirmation. None of it was sexual, though, so it was a different sort of case. Have you heard of transference? It sounds to me that *might* be what's going on here, for either you, or her, or both of you.
But it's too hard for me to tell. Whatever, it sounds like she's not a good fit for you from what you have said, and like you don't feel you would benefit in continuing to see her. So I think you should listen to yourself for the answer as to what is best to do.
sunnydays
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