Posted by rskontos on June 29, 2008, at 11:19:44
In reply to ddnos.. my ikids, posted by star008 on June 28, 2008, at 19:43:08
Star, IMHO it is a struggle that you have to embark on you own with your T's help. Mine has not helped connect to mine it has been me on my own. It is something that is hard, but you have to try and start looking inward and start to try to talk to them. It is hard and I too felt like I could not communicate with mine. But I found when I tried well it opened the lines of communication so much I could not deal and had to stop them. I learned too much too fast. So what I am saying is that you must try to meet them halfway. You may be more resistant than you realize. Do you know where the third eye is inside you mind. What yoga refers to. That is a start. Just closing your eyes and trying to have an inner dialogue. You can say it out loud at first. It won't happen quickly maybe but if you just try a little each day. Use a quiet time. For me, I used just before falling asleep. It was a time I was more relaxed. And don't try when you are frustrated, they will sense that. Just say things like you would say to a small, frightened child. Like, we are just going to have a nice chat. Nothing too heavy, just to get to know each other. no worries. That kind of thing. Little by little things can change. It did for me. But then things got too heavy and I got scared and closed the door. And now, I am starting over with the dialogue. And things are opening up again. Remember, that they are part of you. I think, again MHO, that some of the things are things we know about in our gut, and we are scared of finding out about, at least I am, and so I transverse these waters rather timidly, yet I know I must. It might be the same for you. So go slowly, go honestly, and take your time. It can come if you let it. Remember often times, we ourselves get in our own way most of the time because fear is our biggest factor. But this is a most understandable worry.
I trust you know you can email or babble me anytime. I care.
rsk
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