Posted by Annierose on June 9, 2008, at 19:06:29
In reply to worried about sth happening to T(She's ok now), posted by frida on June 9, 2008, at 8:51:36
Yes, I had the "what if" conversation with my t. My brother died suddenly a year ago and it brought up so many fears about death.
I asked my t if she had a plan. She said she often thought about it but put nothing concrete into place. Her husband would probably call me if something happened. I asked her if she would think about a plan for me that would include a referral to another therapist. She said, "absolutely".
With the anniversary of his death nearing, we talked more about death recently. It turned into a wonderful conversation about spiritually that brought me feeling closer to her.
I think it's an important discussion, especially when both parties are healthly and it's a "what if" conversation.
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