Posted by Annierose on May 28, 2008, at 8:22:34
In reply to I don't know what I'm feeling tonight....., posted by LadyBug on May 27, 2008, at 21:41:41
I feel like there is a piece of the puzzle that your t is not sharing with you. The story on its own does not make sense. Something is missing.
I'm with Dinah. It's sad that she won't help get this relationship back on course. The fact that you feel a wall going up, doesn't concern me. That feeling could be part of your internal resistance ... a natural defense mechanism.
During the times I felt at odds with my T, one thing I could always count on, is that together we would get past the hurt and miscommunication and begin to heal. Sometimes we would agreed that we disagreed on this ... but it did not intefere with our working relationship. I saw blue and she saw red and no matter what either said, we stood firm in our stance. But I always understood where she was coming from even if I disagreed and visa versa.
I'm sorry you feel all alone. You're not. Focus on all the life blessings you do have, not what you lost.
poster:Annierose
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