Posted by Dinah on May 21, 2008, at 20:55:23
In reply to Re: Is it awful of me? » Dinah, posted by rskontos on May 21, 2008, at 19:32:03
Yeah, for the most part yeah. It is positive. And I like that with a bit of help I can think these things out. That way I can act with clarity and purpose instead of in automatic and poorly understood reaction.
But I have to confess, I hadn't admitted to myself that I used money to protect myself as well, until now. Or if I ever did, I forgot.
It's a little disconcerting to realize that I do want to hold this person at a distance. That I don't want too much intimacy with him. That's a complete reversal of how I usually think of myself.
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