Posted by Dinah on April 27, 2008, at 0:02:15
In reply to Re: holy crap! » Dinah, posted by twinleaf on April 26, 2008, at 23:44:47
No, it really wouldn't be helpful for us.
My mother did not have healthy boundaries, sexually. She disclosed things that I really had no business knowing. And although it wasn't abuse, it did leave me with significant issues.
For you, discussing sexuality might be good for your sexual anxiety. But for me, it would not be good.
I have no desire for him. I know desire, and if I felt it for him I wouldn't be seeing him as a therapist. He has no desire for me. I'm ugly and fat, and thank god for that.
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