Posted by Dinah on April 22, 2008, at 9:34:25
In reply to Re: I think I am pretending in T.....(triggersposs » Dinah, posted by rskontos on April 22, 2008, at 9:26:19
You aren't being petty. Of course it bothered me. I felt like I was the most boring person on earth. We changed chairs, we changed appointment times.
And the wretch would even imply that he wasn't usually like this. Sigh.
But overall he's helpful to me and I wanted to keep the relationship and keep it as positive and strong as possible. It just didn't make sense to get upset and offended about something that I could do something about. Which doesn't mean I don't let him see that I see what's going on in a nonaccusing way. That would just lead to resentment.
By bringing it out in the open, we can deal with it. And yes, he does get up and move around or stretch or even stand while we do therapy. And since he's so tall that's a bit distracting.
But I reiterate, I do this because we have a good relationship and I want to keep it strong. If biofeedback guy had done it, it would have just been one more reason to leave.
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