Posted by frida on April 9, 2008, at 8:10:15
In reply to Re: Emails, posted by Daisym on April 9, 2008, at 0:13:45
Dear Daisy,
my T and I do share e-mails. She doesn't respond to all of them, but sometimes she does. I know that if i need something urgent i should call her. But email has helped me to share things with her..she doesn't really encourage me to email her now, because she wants me to talk and connect in person, but we do share emails.
When she responds, she does in a short way and it sounds caring. She sends me hugs at the end of her mails. I try not to read too much into them. The important thing for me is knowing she read what i wrote and she always brings it up in session.
I also usually send her pictures that i'd like to share with her and she likes that.
So i think it's a good way to stay connected..i usually read her mails over and over even if they are 5 lines long..and seeing her name appear makes me feel safe. She writes encouraging mails or says things which she often tells me. Having them in writing means a lot to me as well, it gives me something concrete from her when i don't know how to feel her with me.I hope it is a good experience for you. If you've talked about it, then i think it can be very positive...you know he'll read your mails and he'll know how you are feeling, you won't be alone.
All the best,
Frida
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