Posted by annierose on March 13, 2008, at 6:41:45
In reply to Monday, posted by crushedout on March 12, 2008, at 22:50:30
I've gotten the impression from all your posts about this incident that you really appreciated everyone "rallies" against your therapist.
I've taken the position that this is an excellent opportunity to work on your stuff.
You mentioned in the above thread several things you did in a week - quit your job (and I forget the rest). They all were example of walking away from things.
Maybe this is the place to understand what happends to "crushed" when someone hurts her feelings. Your t isn't turning you away. People (including therapists) make mistakes - big and small. And I think it's worth figuring out what happens to you in these situations.
I can see why finding out things about her personal life - her children especially - got her on the offense. She did apologize for her over-reaction.
Therapy is learning and finding out about ways we interact with others. I hope you take her up on her offer.
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