Posted by raisinb on March 8, 2008, at 8:50:21
In reply to Re: an idea » raisinb, posted by crushedout on March 7, 2008, at 22:46:30
Yeah, don't do it if it doesn't make you feel more secure. My worst fear is that my T will continue to see me, even while taking out her own issues on me. Abandonment comes second, but I think I forgot that for many babblers, it comes first.
I have that feeling all the time--that if I just *force* myself to quit therapy, then my real life will get better because I'm *forced* to invest in it more. My T says, "well, it's not like smoking!" and that the reason I formulate it that way is that I'm too hard on myself. But it's hard to say either way.
This sure sucks. Try to take care of yourself and feel better, whether you go to the session or not.
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