Posted by sunnydays on March 5, 2008, at 22:53:46
In reply to Homework Help Needed, posted by DAisym on March 5, 2008, at 19:47:56
Are you my twin? After getting completely flooded with grief and panic when I thought my T had to reschedule my appointment, I have been having a hard time bouncing back - it's been over a day now. But my T is being great, and his emails back to my panicked ones have been very reassuring - I can't believe I asked him if he was going to get fired or divorced - and that he answered!
That IS a hard question, and I'm quite sure that I would be very uncomfortable and might dissociate a little if my T were to ask me that. I think that it's almost unanswerable for me, because the 'should's', etc, and the realistic part of me is too strong. On the one hand, if I could call him whenever I wanted and he would answer and soothe me, or if I could live with him or visit his house or something, but then part of me says, "No, you don't really want that, sunnydays, you wouldn't probably like that very much. It's fine just the way it is."
Sorry I can't offer more. That is a really tough question. I vote for telling your T it's a trick question!
(((Daisy)))
sunnydays
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