Re: Emotional abuse » Jamal Spelling

Posted by B2chica on February 15, 2008, at 14:35:46

In reply to Re: Emotional abuse, posted by Jamal Spelling on February 15, 2008, at 14:08:54

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USE him...
Remember his is a means to your goal. he means nothing to you other than that.
judge HIM. make sure his critisism is constructive, if it's not, critisize his critisism! you are needing advising for a thesis NOT advice as a person.
Make sure his comments are about THE paper THE research, not YOUR writing and YOUR perceptions....he can't go through your whole career with you so he needs to help guide you NOT dumptruck on your work and leave you gaping with no bandages.
Remember. he means nothing OTHER than to help you through your thesis.
Separate yourself if you can. it is Very important for your health right now.
good luck with your pdoc.

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