Posted by Jamal Spelling on February 15, 2008, at 13:51:31
In reply to Re: Emotional abuse, posted by Sigismund on February 15, 2008, at 13:30:55
> Apart from your self esteem, this kind of thing can't be much good for your thesis.
That's a good point. I sometimes wonder how this destructive relationship affects my work.
When I tried to discuss some of my concerns with him last week, he pretty much told me that I should find a different supervisor if I can't handle his criticism. But it's not practically feasible at this stage for me to change supervisors. I've gone too deep into what I'm doing, plus there are financial implications.
I was doing well up until recently. I've been off of medication for more than a year. But he is causing me to relapse into whatever it is that is busy happening to me.
I've scheduled an appointment to see my pdoc on 26 February. The days are ticking by slowly. I wish I could see her sooner. I'm going to ask her to put me on an AP so as to kill my emotion. That way he won't be able to upset me anymore.
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