Posted by rskontos on February 14, 2008, at 13:42:04
In reply to Re: Upset with others, or me, or just fear? » Racer, posted by Poet on February 14, 2008, at 13:19:11
Anger must be in the stars or heavens because I did the same thing. You know I really hate the phrase, "Hun (short for honey), you are over-reacting" Because one day, I am truly going to over-react and show everyone what it really, really means for me. Nevertheless Racer, Poet is right, you have tried with the friend, and either she is ok or she is a wants to stew over and in either case you offered. Case closed. And the next like Poet says, isn't Poet so wise, ( I mean this) pick up the tab next time. Or tell her next to your turn to go to the bathroom while I pay the tab and laugh and grab for the check.
Do not under any circumstance internalize this. Call your t, take it out on a pillow, or other soft object but don't take it out on your self.
You are a great person Racer. This is just one of those rough patches we all have!!
I bet I could find something useful to do in the circus so let me come too please....
rsk
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