Posted by rskontos on February 13, 2008, at 12:31:17
In reply to Re: No wonder we never talk about that » Daisym, posted by Dinah on February 12, 2008, at 21:22:37
Dinah, I would not if I were you think he was angry with you. You should not take his feelings on. He should worry about your feelings not you worrying about his. That is his job really not yours, I feel. I think you do yourself more harm to take his on. Role reversal in effect. Just my take though. If he is having a bad day, he needs to rein himself him. I mean, I know that you too have been in therapy for a long time, but still...maybe a refund is in order if he projected on you like Daisym suggested. If not, then he really needs to 'fess up to what was really going on, because I am with the crowd, doesn't sound like him at all. Upping the intensity stills doesn't sound like something that would make him go off in the tangent, unless that way just what it; was a tangent and a separate thing on its own.
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