Posted by RealMe on February 7, 2008, at 23:45:26
In reply to Re: Daisym, did not get to definition with T » rskontos, posted by Daisym on February 7, 2008, at 0:16:42
DaisyM You are absolutely right. I have left before a total disaster, and he knows it, and once he gave me the conference room to sit in until I was feeling okay to leave. I told him I can't do that. Yep the feeling side leaves me an emotional wreck. I hate it, but in the long run it helps. I have told my T that (sort of got mad at him and said) it helps if he sort of summarizes things and comments about it all at the end. It helps give me some closure to the session and I don't feel like a basket case, and so he has done this, but I have also had to remind him to do it. Guess they are learning wiht us what works for each of us as everyone is different. I see my T tomorrow morning. He responded to one of my emails finally when I said his silence speaks volumes. He said what i was saying was powerful stuff that needed to be addressed in person. So, I wonder about it all. Will it be ending? Will he be able to work something out with me? Can we meet less frequently and still accomplish what I need to accomplish? I will see what he says. He may well say I should see someone else as in his opinion due to my trust issues, I need more not less, and this is why he said three times per week would be better for me than 2 times per week--He thinks it is too much time between sessions, and I seal over between times. He is right.
The disaster part is gut wrenching, and I have told him I can't go to work and get anything done unless we work on putting me back together so to speak. I just want to go home and sleep afterwards and yes have an awful headache too lots of times but not always. So rsk, you need to got back.
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