Posted by sassyfrancesca on February 5, 2008, at 10:10:00
In reply to Re: still miserable about love feelings for therap » sassyfrancesca, posted by widget on February 4, 2008, at 12:53:08
Dear Widget: I never knew my father, and every man in my life abused/and/or abandoned me. My t told me that every man in my life had failed me. That is true.
I even had a whole church and pastor abandon me; that is a long story. After I got a divorce of 31 years of abuse; my church voted me out of membership, with my name up on a big screen, followed by the words; "Conduct Unbecoming A Child of God."
A friend of mine mentioned (my now t), because he is an expert in spiritual abuse; that is how I met him; he journeyed with me while I fought the spiritual abusive system, and I have been with him ever since. I told him that I would rather be in pain WITH him, that in pain WITHOUT him; we have very frank, open, authentic discussions.
he is a man of such integrity, but he fights his feelings for me; and so we go back and forth (he drives me nuts with his inconsistency), and he said he knew he was "inconsistent!!"
Now, here is the kicker......I just joined the American Association of Counselors (as a student of psych. I can do that); I am going to the same convention as he is.....in HAWAII.......and I am going alone; I think he is too....more on that later.....I am open, and willing to discuss anything, so ask away if you wish!
Love, Francesca; again, feel free to e-mail me: wacalice@aol.com, and if you wish, I will send you what has gone on between us.
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