Posted by sassyfrancesca on February 1, 2008, at 12:25:08
In reply to Re: this is rough *long*, posted by Daisym on February 1, 2008, at 10:55:32
I guess what I am wondering is have you/did you ever discuss goals? That is a good way to start; it is hard to feel all over the place without a "game" plan.
If you don't feel accepted, she cannot help you (I know you know this); we all know when someone accept s us or likes us; this allows us to trust them (or not...trust them)
We all do what we need to to stay out of pain and stay safe. How safe do you feel with her?
There has to be that connection, or you will continue to be frustrated (again, I know you know that).
Hugs, Francesca
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