Posted by rskontos on January 16, 2008, at 7:52:01
In reply to Re: he was there.... » rskontos, posted by Phillipa on January 15, 2008, at 22:31:25
Does what go away, I am afraid I don't understand your question? I too raised myself as my mother was not only unstable but cruel, moody, delusional, and a unreachable. Very scary at times and you had to be on guard....my father was on another planet, unreachable and did not want to be a father so wasn't.
So in psychotherapy the therapist assumes the role of a stable parent in order for you to have that stable role in order for you to move on and get that finally in your life. Then hopefully one day you are able to transition from that. So yes I assume you are able to to move and and it goes away.
Is this what you mean....I am not sure I understand really what you are asking? rsk
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