Posted by rskontos on December 12, 2007, at 10:35:14
In reply to Re: I went to T » littleone, posted by muffled on December 12, 2007, at 9:49:17
Muffled, I told you it is ok to show this to T because ikid needs to have her say and you did it. Ikid knows now that she can trust you and t and can say what she needs to when she needs to. Maybe next time you can stay to hear it not go away. ikid is still protecting you so tell her you can take hearing what she is saying that you need to. For both of you. T will tell you when she needs to what you said. Maybe it wasn't important what you said when you were gone what was important was that ikid got HEARD and her time to be out when she wanted and to talk. Ask your T bout that. If ikid knows you won't try to control her and smash her then she will be more willing to work with you and cooperate.
I hope I am right. Remember I am not under control either. This is all my hope. Tomorrow I am going to let things just flow. I am thinking maybe it is ok to be triggered so I remember faster. I don't know.
I think you are going to be ok.
((((((((((Muffled)))))))))))
rk
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